Considering a divorce in Arizona? Before you file, there are a few important steps you can take to protect yourself financially, emotionally, and legally. At The Shaw Law Group, we guide clients through every stage of the divorce process with clarity, compassion, and strategy.
Here are five smart steps that can help you feel more prepared and in control as you navigate this life transition.
Step 1: Get Your Financial Documents in Order
Why it matters: Arizona is a community property state, which means most assets and debts acquired during your marriage will be divided fairly during a divorce. But not everything is shared. Property owned before the marriage, gifts, or inheritances may be treated as separate.
What to do:
- Collect key financial records: bank statements, credit card balances, mortgage documents, tax returns, retirement accounts (401(k), IRA), and investment info.
- Create an asset list: homes, vehicles, valuables, business interests, and other property.
- List out debts and liabilities as well.
Pro tip: Having this information organized early will give your attorney a strong foundation to protect your interests during the divorce process.
Step 2: Know Your Legal Rights Under Arizona Divorce Law
You don’t need to be a legal expert, but understanding the basics of Arizona divorce law will help you make more informed decisions.
Key concepts include:
- Community property vs. separate property
- Spousal maintenance (alimony): whether you may be entitled to receive or be obligated to pay
- Child support: based on income and parenting time
Pro Tip: Start with a legal consultation. Even if you’re not ready to file, talking with a family law attorney early can help you avoid costly mistakes and gain peace of mind.
Step 3: Think About Parenting Time and Legal Decision-Making
If you have children, planning ahead is essential. In Arizona, terms like legal decision-making and parenting time are used instead of custody. The court’s focus is always on what’s best for the children.
Questions to consider:
- What kind of parenting schedule would work best given your work hours, school routines, and holiday plans?
- How will major decisions, such as education and healthcare, be made?
Pro Tip: Create a parenting plan. Even a rough plan can show the court that you’re prioritizing your children’s needs and are serious about co-parenting responsibly.
Step 4: Be Mindful About Communication
This step is often overlooked but can have serious consequences.
Avoid these common mistakes:
- Sending angry texts or emails
- Posting personal or emotional content on social media
- Discussing your case with people who may not keep things private
Remember, anything you say or write can potentially be brought into court. Judges in Arizona appreciate calm, respectful communication, especially when children are involved.
Pro Tip: If you need to vent, do it in a private setting with a trusted friend or therapist.
Step 5: Build Your Support System
Divorce isn’t just a legal process, it’s an emotional one, too. You don’t have to go through it alone.
Your support system could include:
- Friends and family
- A therapist or counselor
- Divorce support groups
- Your legal team
Pro Tip: Don’t underestimate the emotional toll of divorce. Building a support system early, whether through therapy, close friends, or support groups, can help you stay grounded and make clearer, more rational decisions during a difficult time.
Ready to Talk About Your Divorce Options?
At The Shaw Law Group, we help Arizona residents like you understand your rights and make smart, empowered decisions. Whether you’re ready to file or just starting to explore your options, we’re here to support you every step of the way, and we also share helpful tips and answers to your questions on our website and YouTube channel.
Schedule a consultation today to get clear answers and a strategic plan.
